Yet what is obvious in married life many have failed to understand in the Christian life. The privileges of the Christian life are emphasized while the responsibilities are marginalized or altogether ignored. How many times have you heard a preacher or author emphasize the message found in Matthew 11:28
"Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”
However they fail to make known to the listener the condition of the rest that is promised found in the next two verses,
“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
According to the text, what is that condition?
You see it is the yoke of Christ that makes one a disciple, not the coming to Him. Multitudes thronged the Savior while he was on the earth, many came to him to learn the way of salvation, others came to him to be healed, may came near to him, but few would take his yoke upon themselves.
An example of this can be found in John chapter 6.
Jesus had just worked one of his greatest miracles by feeding the five thousand with a few loaves and fishes. Many who were weary and heavy laden had come to him and found a temporal blessing. Based on that miracle alone the people wanted to take him and make him King immediately. But Jesus didn’t just want to give the people a temporal blessing, he wanted to give them something much more important, so he snuck away.
"The next day they went looking for him. And when they found Him on the other side of the sea, they said to Him, “Rabbi, when did You come here?” Jesus answered them and said, “Most assuredly, I say to you, you seek Me, not because you saw the signs, but because you ate of the loaves and were filled.” (John 6:25-26 NKJV)
“Then Jesus said to them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you have no life in you. Whoever eats My flesh and drinks My blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. For My flesh is food indeed, and My blood is drink indeed. He who eats My flesh and drinks My blood abides in Me, and I in him.” (John 6:53-56 NKJV)
“Therefore many of His disciples, when they heard this, said, “This is a hard saying; who can understand it?” When Jesus knew in Himself that His disciples complained about this, He said to them, “Does this offend you? What then if you should see the Son of Man ascend where He was before? It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits nothing. The words that I speak to you are spirit, and they are life. But there are some of you who do not believe.” For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were who did not believe, and who would betray Him. And He said, “Therefore I have said to you that no one can come to Me unless it has been granted to him by My Father.”From that time many of His disciples went back and walked with Him no more." (John 6:60-66 NKJV)
You see when Jesus says “come” it is always a call to discipleship. And discipleship is symbolized by abiding in Christ though the eating of his flesh and the drinking of his blood or more simply by the yoke.
So what is the yoke?
In simple terms, discipleship (wearing the yoke) is a process of becoming like Christ. It is a process because we don’t become like Christ over night.
However the yoke symbolizes what kind of relationship this is going to be. We do not begin to become more and more like Christ until we are broken. An animal wearing a yoke is completely broken and surrendered to the will of its master. The same must be true for us.
Many initially willingly place the yoke of Christ upon themselves after their coming to Jesus. However when they get to the point where they realize that Jesus is asking them to surrender everything in there life to Him, they begin to get cold feet.
Jesus, you don’t really want me to stop watching this do you?
Jesus you don’t really want me to stop eating that do you?
Jesus you don’t really want me to give that away do you?
Jesus you can’t possibly expect me to love that person do you?
It is at this point that many choose to take off the yoke. They want the benefits of being connected to Christ, but they do not want the restraints that a close connection to him entails. So they choose to be near to Christ, but not so near that they are connected to and controlled by Him. This is a more comfortable situation they decide. In this way they can enjoy the benefits without the sacrifice: The benefits being the rest (assurance of salvation), and the sacrifice being under the yoke (absolute surrender).
However what these people are looking for is not what God offers them. They want, as Bonhoeffer so eloquently said,
“Grace which amounts to justification of sin, without the justification of the repentant sinner who departs from sin and from whom sin departs.”
Bonhoeffer called this cheap grace. In other words grace that allows me to live as I please and still retain my salvation.
These people are what Ellen White would call Almost Christians. Christians who are continually seeking a connection to Christ, but who are not willing so surrender their lives completely to His control.
“Almost Christians, yet not fully Christians, they seem near the kingdom of heaven, but they cannot enter there. Almost but not wholly saved, means to be not almost but wholly lost.”
Therefore unless the sinner is wearing the yoke of Christ there can be no rest or assurance. For the Bible clearly states,
“For if we willfully persist in sin after having received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a fearful prospect of judgment, and a fury of fire that will consume the adversaries.” (Hebrews 10:26)
Therefore another way to describe discipleship is simply obedience to Christ who is “the Way, the Truth, and the Life.”
The “Way” is through the cross. The “Truth” is what we must obey, and the “Life” is the result: forgiveness of sin, transformation of character into the likeness of Christ, and the gift of eternal life. There is no other way but through the cross of Christ and the crucifixion of self. Jesus said,
“Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.” (Matthew 16:24 NKJV)
Why did Jesus make this statement? What had just happened previous to this?
Jesus had been explaining to his disciples that his journey on earth was leading to suffering by the hands of men and finally death on a cross.
Do you remember how Peter responded?
“Then Peter took Him aside and began to rebuke Him, saying, “Far be it from You, Lord; this shall not happen to You!” But He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are an offense to Me, for you are not mindful of the things of God, but the things of men.” (Matthew 16:22-23 NKJV)
What was Peter doing? He was tempting Jesus to take off the yoke of his father. He was tempting him to let go of the cross he was carrying for humanity. Thus Peter gets one of the strongest rebukes that Jesus ever gave to anyone.
You see my friends sometimes it will be your closest friends and family who will be the ones tempting you to put down the cross of Christ and to take off his yoke. Every day we must surrender ourselves completely to Christ and choose to put on His yoke. This is how Jesus called all his disciples. They were to forsake all and follow Him. Nothing in this world could hinder them. In fact in Matthew 10:38 Jesus went as far to say,
“He who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.”
Being connected to Christ is of such value that anyone who would neglect the humility and discipline it involves is simply not worthy of Jesus.
Christ is the Pearl of great price or the Treasure found in a field that if one were to find would sell everything he owns to acquire. Anything that draws our affections away from Christ must be given up. Whether it be pleasure seeking, worldly ambition, wealth, fashion, appetite or entertainment it all must be laid aside so that we can pick up the cross and put on the yoke of Christ.
“Oh but this is too high of a price to pay,” you say. Is it? What do you give up? “A sin-polluted heart, for Jesus to purify, to cleanse by His own blood, and to save by His matchless love. And yet men think it hard to give up all!” (EGW SC)
And what do you get in return? Everything!
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ.” (Ephesians 1:3 NKJV)
In Christ we receive a new abundant life where we are constantly receiving power from on high.
Whereas before we were burdened with worry, guilt, and the consequences of our sin, in Christ now we have rest for our souls. We have peace, and fellowship with God, and the blood of Christ cleanses us from all our sin.
So how do we wear the yoke of Christ? Again the issue comes back to surrender.
As Andrew Murray said,
“A full surrender is to obey as well as to trust, to trust as well as to obey.”
Or to put it another way Bonhoeffer said,
“Only he who believes is obedient, and only he who is obedient believes.”
Therefore in order to wear the yoke of Christ we must not only believe that Jesus is Lord, for even the devils believe that and tremble, but we must follow that belief with humble submission to the will of God. Thus as we submit and obey God’s will in our lives our trust in him grows more and more, and as our trust grows our obedience deepens until self is completely lost sight of.
This process of course involves a denial of self, which is a willful choice we need to make everyday. Just as Joshua commanded the people, “Choose you this day who you will serve”, we must make a choice whether we will serve Christ, and put on His yoke, or to serve ourselves.
We always have a choice. That is why we should be so diligent to shun everything in our lives and anyone who would tempt us to lay down the cross.
People may think you are weird when you walk out of a room because of something on the TV; they may misunderstand you when you try to explain why you can’t go to their party; they may get offended when you share with them your convictions and hope in Jesus soon coming. But we can’t have it both ways. Jesus said in Luke 16:13,
“No servant can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Mammon."
In fact we cannot serve both God and you fill-in-the-blank! When we do this the Bible terms us as double-minded and unstable in all our ways.
Yet there is hope. The Bible says in James 4:8-10,
“Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.”
Here we have three simple steps to discipleship.
The first is simply to come to Jesus. We as sinners must feel an overwhelming sense of our unworthiness and at the same time have a deep yearning to be changed. There needs to be desperation for freedom.
This needs to be followed by the second step, a deep contrition of soul and hatred for the sin we are leaving behind. There must be a real sense of understanding what our sin has cost our Savior along with a determination to rid our lives of all the idols that have held our attention over the years.
If we are serious about our repentance we will radically amputate those idols from our lives. For instance if an immoral relationship is my idol I will end it, if the television is my idol I will cut my cable, if fashion is my idol I will burn all my immodest clothes, or if money is my idol I will practice giving it away. This is true repentance.
“But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts.”
(Romans 13:14 NKJV)
Finally, now that we are free from the yokes of this world we can take the third step and humbly put on the yoke of Christ. This is done daily through early morning consecration, Bible reading and meditation, prayer, journaling and periodic fasting.
Soon this time with God becomes our favorite time of the day, and now we understand what Christ meant when he said “you shall have rest for your soul.” An inner peace comes into our life, and God begins to work miracles on our behalf, lifting us up from the depths to reflect his glory. Our life now bears witness to the wonderful power of the grace of God and as we stay connected to Him we finally understand the meaning of “my yoke is easy, my burden is light,” for it is Christ now who is working in us both to will and to do his good pleasure.


